At the age of 33, I sometimes feel like I’ve already lived a thousand lives. I’m originally from Los Angeles, and over the last decade, I’ve done everything from teaching English in China to serving as an emergency aid worker in Turkey during the war in Syria.
After I completed my master’s degree in London, I started working as a product manager for a global travel tech company, and I had the option to transfer to the U.S. or to Germany, where my husband is from.
When considering my decision, I did some math and I realized that in Germany, even on a lower salary than what I would be potentially earning in the U.S., I could achieve my financial goals, like paying off my student debt, faster.
Since February 2020, I have called Berlin, Germany home, and I have never been happier. Here is why I love living here:
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I adore our quiet, cozy neighborhood
My husband and I live in an area west of Berlin called Charlottenburg, a relatively quiet neighborhood filled with cozy coffee shops and middle-class families. I am on a first-name basis with many of the shop owners, and I love the community here.
We live in a 1,100-square-foot, 2-bedroom apartment with a balcony. We pay $1,843 per month for rent, about $350 for utilities, and $240 for parking. We were paying about the same in London, but our Berlin apartment is double the size, and the building is much newer.
Taking in the sunshine and a beautiful day in the city.
Photo: Vanessa Wachtmeister
For groceries, I’m a big fan of METRO, which is essentially the Costco of Germany. Every two weeks, we spend about $300 on our bulk staples. We fill in as necessary with other items bought from local budget retailers like Aldi and Lidl. Lidl sells 45 cent Brötchen, or bread rolls, that are my favorite.
Moving here helped me pay off debt
In Germany, the government provides things like guaranteed healthcare, pensions, parental leave, tuition-free university and even unemployment insurance. I have a few friends who were laid off, but thanks to that insurance, they were able to receive 80% of their salary for one year.
When I was deciding between the U.S. and Germany, I crunched some numbers and realized that with the social safety net — and not having to set aside thousands of dollars for medical emergencies, for example — I would be able to save between $1,000 and $3,000 each month. That’s made a huge difference.
In front of Brandenburg Gate.
Photo: Vanessa Wachtmeister
When I arrived, I was facing down $130,000 in student debt. I was able to pay off all of it in November 2023, all while still saving and investing for my future. It has been a huge weight off my shoulders, and I don’t worry about not being able to pay my bills here.
My money goes farther, and I’m also happy to contribute my fair share so people can access support when they need it.
There is a palpable sense of community
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